Spiritually Aligned Relationships.
Building marriages, families and Kingdom living through covenant, order and intimacy with God.
A Get Anchored workbook anchored in the 8-4-2-1 transformation code. Seven sections, eight signature principles and a daily anchoring checklist.
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7 sections, worked with a pen.
- 01My soul is anchored.
- 02The 8-4-2-1 transformation code.
- 03Kingdom order in relationships.
- 04Dying to self.
- 05The power of spiritual alignment.
- 06The healthy opposer.
- 07Safe space and covenant.
- 08The courtroom of heaven.
- 09Building a Kingdom outpost.
- 10Get Anchored commitment.
- 11Get Anchored daily practices.
- 12Get Anchored signature principles.
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My soul is anchored.
An anchored life begins with an anchored relationship with God.
Most people seek healthy relationships while carrying unresolved wounds, distorted identity, fear, shame, pride, control issues, abandonment wounds or unhealthy expectations.
God never designed marriage to function apart from spiritual alignment with Him first.
The goal of this workbook is not simply to help couples get along. The goal is to help individuals become spiritually aligned with God so they can build Kingdom centered relationships that honor Christ.
A spiritually aligned marriage is.
My soul is anchored.
· Will MukesTake a breath. Find a quiet hour. Write the date below. This workbook is meant to be slow.
Kingdom order in relationships.
Understanding God's design.
God established order before He established relationship roles.
The world often teaches power, control, competition and self preservation. Scripture teaches sacrifice, honor, humility and covenant.
When God instructed husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church, He established sacrificial leadership. When God instructed wives to respect their husbands, He established partnership rooted in honor and trust.
Neither role was designed for domination. Both were designed for spiritual alignment.
· Will MukesKey scripture study.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. Ephesians 5:25
- What does sacrificial love practically look like?
- What areas of selfishness does God want removed from your life?
- How does dying to self strengthen relationships?
Let the wife see that she respects her husband. Ephesians 5:33
- What does healthy respect look like?
- How can communication either build or tear down trust?
- How does honor affect emotional safety?
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Closeness with God first. Covenant relationships second. The full relational journey.

Will Mukes, LMFT
A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Wichita, Kansas. For over a decade he has sat with people in the quiet, the loud and the broken rooms of their lives, anchoring clinical skill to the certainty that Christ heals.
Get Anchored is the framework for that work. Every book on his shelf is part of that one project.
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